Asalam Aleykom!
Let's continue with Part 2 of "Tips on Making the Most of Ramadan."
4. Be around so7ba sal7a (Good company)
سُوۡرَةُ الکهف
وَٱصۡبِرۡ نَفۡسَكَ مَعَ ٱلَّذِينَ يَدۡعُونَ رَبَّہُم بِٱلۡغَدَوٰةِ وَٱلۡعَشِىِّ يُرِيدُونَ وَجۡهَهُ ۥۖ وَلَا تَعۡدُ عَيۡنَاكَ عَنۡہُمۡ تُرِيدُ زِينَةَ ٱلۡحَيَوٰةِ ٱلدُّنۡيَاۖ وَلَا تُطِعۡ مَنۡ أَغۡفَلۡنَا قَلۡبَهُ ۥ عَن ذِكۡرِنَا وَٱتَّبَعَ هَوَٮٰهُ وَكَانَ أَمۡرُهُ ۥ فُرُطً۬ا (٢٨)
“And keep yourself patient [by being]
with those who call upon their Lord in the morning and the evening, seeking His
countenance. And let not your eyes pass beyond them, desiring adornments of the
worldly life, and do not obey one whose heart We have made heedless of Our
remembrance and who follows his desire and whose affair is ever [in] neglect.”
5. Make the most of Qiyam:
- Have Suhoor
- Ask Allah for anything! Beg as
if you are a child who wants their parents consent on something.
- Read Qur’an
- Ask Allah for forgiveness
6. There may be small bumps that will take you away from 3ibadat (practicing), so be cautious. These things may be TV shows or people that will stop you from doing good deeds. Lower your gaze to this dunya and focus on the bigger more important picture.
Use new duaas that you aren’t used to using and understand them so that
you can recite them with more emotion and sincerity.
7. Be careful of bigger bumps that may take you steps backward when you just started to move forward. Things that cause much bigger bumps include Al 3ojb (which was mentioned above).
When you start being proud of your accomplishments remember that Allah is
the reason behind them. When you are blessed with a gift from Allah be thankful
for the gift and don’t let it cause you to forget Who gave it to you. Always be
in need of Allah, without Him we are nothing and be sincere with your actions.
8. Make the most of the last 10 days of Ramadan and await laylit Al Qadr (The Night of Power).
9. Evaluate yourself through Ramadan and get rid of things that went wrong. To make up for the things that went wrong you can carry out zakat al fitr.
10. Husn zun bi Allah; expecting good from Allah or being optimistic towards Allah
"يَقُولُ
اللَّهُ تَعَالَى: أَنَا عِنْدَ ظَنِّ عَبْدِي بِي، وَأَنَا مَعَهُ إِذَا
ذَكَرَنِي، فَإِنْ ذَكَرَنِي فِي نَفْسِهِ، ذَكَرْتُهُ فِي نَفْسِي، وَإِنْ
ذَكَرَنِي فِي مَلَإٍ، ذَكَرْتُهُ فِي مَلَإٍ خَيْرٌ مِنْهُمْ، وَإِنْ تَقَرَّبَ
إِلَيَّ بِشِبْرٍ، تَقَرَّبْتُ إِلَيْهِ ذِرَاعًا، وَإِنْ تَقَرَّبَ إِلَيَّ
ذِرَاعًا، تَقَرَّبْتُ إِلَيْهِ بَاعًا(1) وَإِنْ أَتَانِي يَمْشِي، أَتَيْتُهُ
هَرْوَلَةً"
رواه البخاري (وكذلك مسلم والترمذي وابن ماجه)
Allah the
Almighty said: 'I am as My servant thinks I am (1). I am with him when he makes
mention of Me. If he makes mention of Me to himself, I make mention of him to
Myself; and if he makes mention of Me in an assembly, I make mention of him in
an assembly better than it. And if he draws near to Me an arm's length, I draw near
to him a fathom's length. And if he comes to Me walking, I go to him at
speed." انا عند ظن عبدي بي فليظن عبدي بي ما شاء
And Allah
knows best.
May Allah purify
our hearts and guide us to the straight path.
Ramadan
Kareem and Jazakom Allahu Khayra!
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